Mediation, Information and Assessment Meeting (MIAMS)
£140 plus vat per hour
Accredited mediation appointments for separating couples across Winchester, Southampton and the surrounding areas.
Winchester is well served by family law professionals, but finding a mediator with the right combination of legal expertise and genuine mediation experience is not always straightforward. Choice Family Mediation, founded by Hazel Manktelow in 2015, offers accredited family mediation appointments in Winchester through Jayne Llewelyn, a specialist family law solicitor, collaborative lawyer and accredited mediator with extensive experience working with families across Hampshire and beyond.
For families in east Hampshire and the Clanfield area, Hazel is available from the Choice Family Mediation office in Clanfield. Between them, Hazel and Jayne provide consistent, professional mediation support across a wide stretch of Hampshire.
Jayne Llewellyn is local to Winchester and through Choice Family Mediation offers regular appointments, making mediation accessible for families across the city of Winchester and the surrounding area, including those in Southampton, Salisbury, Lymington, the New Forest and further into west Hampshire.
Jayne is a Recommended Lawyer in the Legal 500 UK 2026 and is recognised for being approachable, thorough and exceptionally knowledgeable. She specialises in cases that are more complex or involve higher-value assets, including pensions, family businesses, trusts and overseas financial arrangements. Her background as both a practising solicitor and an accredited mediator means she understands the full legal landscape, which is particularly valuable when financial settlements are intricate or when both parties already have legal representation.
She is also a committed collaborative lawyer, experienced in a range of non-court resolution methods, and able to help families find the right approach for their particular situation.
We approach each case with a fresh outlook, ready to help both parties find a resolution that is acceptable to them as individuals. Our friendly yet professional stance is built upon over 25 years’ experience in family law and our extensive knowledge is put to good use by helping couples communicate calmly in a neutral setting.
Just a selection of feedback from our satisfied customers.
"Thank you for being such a calming and steadying presence and for your wisdom and ability to navigate me through such complex matters. You have always take the time to explain things to help make them manageable to me"
"Thank you so much for your patience, help and genuine care you showed .. It was such a hard and emotional time for me and your guidance, reassurance and expertise truly helped to calm me and get me through it. Your kindness and understanding made a difficult situation feel more manageable".
“I have referred a number of clients to Hazel. From a solicitor’s perspective, I have been pleased with how Hazel has guided the discussions towards a sensible solution, followed up by clear and comprehensive notes. Clients have reported feeling at ease in her company and able to address issues that they had been daunted by, which is so important.”
"I found mediation a positive environment to discuss all aspects of our divorce in a confidential atmosphere. My ex-husband and I had found it difficult to reach an agreement and we just needed a third party who had no connection to us to help discuss the points we could not agree on. We found Hazel to be very professional and knowledgeable and our mediation has been successful in drawing up plans to progress our divorce. I would highly recommend mediation and discussing with third parties to reduce costs, but also to conduct your divorce in a grown-up manner and avoid the ping pong and stress of lawyer's letters. Give it a try!"
“Hazel has a great knack of keeping the discussions positive and forward-looking, even during some potentially very difficult conversations. She skilfully manages to keep both parties feeling equally well-represented throughout mediation. The mediation process is more efficient, less acrimonious and ultimately a lot cheaper than going to court. I would thoroughly recommend Hazel’s services.”
"Just a quick note to let you know that all your hard work between myself and [X] has now actually become an approved financial consent order just today, thank you for your help"
Every case is approached individually. There is no standard template for a family separation, and the team do not work as though there is.
The cost of mediation depends on how many sessions are needed and the complexity of the issues involved. Pricing is always discussed clearly at the outset so there are no surprises.
If children are involved in your case, you may be eligible for the government's Family Mediation Voucher Scheme, which contributes up to £500 towards the cost of mediation. Legal aid may also be available depending on your circumstances. It is worth finding out what you qualify for before assuming mediation is out of reach, and we are happy to walk you through the options.
Compared to court proceedings, mediation is almost always considerably cheaper and faster. A contested financial or child arrangements case can cost thousands of pounds in legal fees and take many months to reach a conclusion. Most families who choose mediation in Winchester reach an agreement in a fraction of that time and at a fraction of that cost.

Jayne Llewelyn is a specialist family law solicitor, collaborative lawyer and accredited mediator who holds regular appointments for people in and near Winchester. Jayne brings significant experience in complex and high-value cases, including those involving pensions, family businesses, trusts and overseas assets, and she works with families across Hampshire and beyond.
Jayne is a Recommended Lawyer in the Legal 500 UK 2026 and is known for being approachable and practical without ever losing sight of what her clients actually need. She is a committed collaborative lawyer and mediator, which means she is equally comfortable finding non-court resolutions as she is navigating more contested proceedings.
For families in Winchester, Southampton and the wider west and central Hampshire area, Jayne is often the natural first point of contact. Between them, Hazel and Jayne cover a broad stretch of Hampshire, and Hazel is happy to point you towards whichever of them is best placed to help with your situation.
Choice Family Mediation was founded by Hazel Manktelow in 2015. Hazel brings over 25 years of family law experience to her work and is based at the Choice office in Clanfield. She is accredited by the Family Mediation Council, holds recognised status against the national standards set by National Family Mediation, and is a trained child-inclusive mediator. In 2023, she was named a Recommended Lawyer in the Legal 500, recognised for her sensitive but pragmatic approach.
For families in east Hampshire, including Petersfield, Horndean, Waterlooville, Liss and the surrounding villages, Hazel is often the more convenient option. She and Jayne work closely together and are happy to point clients towards whichever of them is best suited to the situation and most practical for where a family is based.

Thinking about family mediation in Winchester? A conversation with us costs nothing and commits you to nothing. Get in touch and we will help you work out whether mediation is the right path for your family.
Yes. Jayne is a qualified family law solicitor, a collaborative lawyer and an accredited mediator. That combination is relatively rare and genuinely useful. Her legal background means she understands the implications of different financial and child arrangements in a way that a mediator without a legal qualification may not, and it gives her a strong understanding of what is and is not likely to be approved by a court if an agreement needs to be formalised.
Yes, and this is an area of particular strength. Jayne specialises in cases involving pensions, family businesses, trusts, overseas assets and inherited wealth. She also works with clients with an international element to their separation, including those based overseas or with financial assets in other countries.
Appointments are available in Winchester through Jayne, and in Clanfield and Petersfield with Hazel. Video sessions are available for all stages of the process. If you and the other party are in different parts of Hampshire, or even in different parts of the country, that does not have to be a barrier to mediation.
You can get in touch by phone, by email or by using the contact form below. MIAMs can be held in person in Winchester or by video call if you prefer. Attending a MIAM commits you to nothing further and is a low-pressure way to find out whether mediation is right for your situation.
Session costs vary depending on the complexity of your situation and how many sessions are needed. Many clients are eligible for the government's Family Mediation Voucher Scheme, which contributes up to £500 towards mediation where children are involved. Legal aid may also be available in some circumstances. We are happy to talk through costs and funding options openly at your MIAM.